2346AFC111723 – Use It or Lose It
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Proverbs 31:10-31
10 A capable wife who can find?
She is far more precious than jewels.
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will have no lack of gain.
12 She does him good, and not harm,
all the days of her life.
1 Thessalonians 5:1-3 – 1 Now concerning the times and the seasons, brothers and sisters, you do not need to have anything written to you. 2 For you yourselves know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. 3 When they say, “There is peace and security,” then sudden destruction will come upon them, as labor pains come upon a pregnant woman, and there will be no escape!
Psalm 128:3 – (Click →HERE← for a (↔ Music Link)
3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine
within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots
around your table.
Matthew 25:29-30 – 29 For to all those who have, more will be given, and they will have an abundance; but from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away. 30 As for this worthless slave, throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Aloha nui loa, ʻŌmea! Grace and Peace to each of you from God our Father and our Lord, Jesus the Christ, in the Power of the Holy Spirit. We have arrived at the 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time, the last Sunday of that Liturgical season. The next Sunday is The Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe. After that as the Season of Advent, a time of reflection, anticipation, and JOY. This final Sunday in Ordinary Time in Cycle A reminds us that there is much good in God’s Absolutely Perfect Plan for families that have the Love of God as a foundation and the service of others as a
framework. The First Reading is from the Book of Proverbs. The link above is often titled “Ode to a Capable Wife.” That passage is also referred to as a description of “The Proverbs-31 Woman.” I can tell you there really are women who truly are that remarkable. If you would please read the entire passage – not just the three verses I supplied – you may perhaps have someone come to mind that is represented by the characteristics there. We must also realize that not all women are like that capable wife; some are a bit better, some are a bit worse. When we encounter them, they light up every life and locale they enter with the golden glow of graciousness. We looked into that a few years back in 1145AFC111111 – Virtuous Woman. I have known more than one in my life, and God blessed me with one for my wife.
You might have noticed that all the Key Verses for today mention women. Please bear with me when I repeat my statement that women are simply better than men because they are made better and chosen better. “Men are made of dirt. Women are made of flesh and bone. Women bring forth life. Men support life.” Isha – Woman – became Hawwah (חַוָּ֑ה) – Eve – mother of the Living who was the helpmeet of Adam (הָֽאָדָ֛ם) man of Earth. The Apostle Paul tells us the coming of Christ again will come suddenly like labor for a pregnant woman. This is a very instructive simile. A pregnant woman carries new life beginning at conception and culminating in labor and birth. There is a long period of waiting and anticipation. There are visible and invisible signs that the pregnancy is progressing. There are varying degrees of discomfort throughout the pregnancy. Sometimes there are unforeseen consequences that endanger mother and/or child. Sometimes everything goes so well that the experience of pregnancy is more easily borne. Then, on some unpredicted day at some unexpected hour, suddenly there is a gush of water, a series of painful waves inside her, the effort of pushing that new life out of her and into the world, and finally the JOY that only a mother can know, remember, and understand. It is one of the most amazing things that can be seen! And so, too, will be the return of the Lord. (↔ Music Link)
There will be (has been) a very long period of waiting as more and more signs visible and invisible come into place. There will be a sudden change, and rather than a gush of water there will be a whirl of Angels and Saints in the sky. Then the New Heavens and New Earth will be formed. The Bride of Christ and her Groom will meet together at God’s Great wedding Feast. The hazards, trials, even pains for all the world will also point toward that moment of sudden, albeit long-expected, change. To me, it is significant that the process is more like birth than death. Everything that is born into existence at HIS return will be New Life. And if being present at the birth of a child is completely amazing, how much more so will be the birth of a New Heavens and New Earth! There will be absolute elation for all the Faithful Departed. Conversely, there will be absolute misery for all the unfaithful and unrepentant. Those who see themselves as the deliverers of Peace and Security claiming all is well because they say so will fall prey to their own deceptions and perish forever. YOLO-F. There will be no escape from either of these destinies when the Lord calls his family home!
Family life is the life God intended for all earthlings since Adam and Eve. Family is the basis and the epitome of community. We say so often here that God is community – “The Father loves the Son and The Son loves The Father with such power that their shared Love becomes the Person of the Holy Spirit.” God is a community of Love. A family is an image of the Community of God. Remember, Love is the Core of the APP. In Psalm 128:3, the Psalmist’s description of family comes to us as an image of a family seated at table for a meal – a prefiguring of the Heavenly Wedding Feast – and at the table the prudent man sees his “Proverbs-31 Woman” to be like a fruitful vine, bringing their household stability and the prosperity provided only in covenantal Love between husband, wife, and Creator. Their offspring are like olive sprigs holding the promise of extended productivity and prosperity. The entire family is blessed in their devotion to the Lord by the fruits of their handiwork. All those who live and Love in the Lord will know the generous, unfailing, awesome Goodness of God. There is more, though, because all those who do not live and Love in the Lord will reap what they have sowed. The rejection they give to the Lord will be returned to them.
For to all those who have, more will be given, and they will have an abundance; but from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away. I confess that for many years, this one baffled me! Now that I am older ( much, much older!), I stopped seeing this as a description of material wealth – like the “money makes money” preachers – and understood it as his Blessings to me. When I heard the Pastor talking about “Time, Talent, and Treasure,” like many others I supposed that he’d soon be asking for more money, or for more volunteers to give their time and talent. All of us have abilities that God has placed in us – some have talents like music, or administration, or prophecy, or other gifts of the Holy Spirit. Some of us have the charism of Time which we can offer in service to God and neighbor. All of us have the Treasure of Love which should be the first Gift we offer of all that we offer. (↔ Music Link). I reiterate, Love is the core of the APP, and God calls on us to make it our top priority, even in worship. Everything we need to know about love is in the B.I.B.L.E. Here are two examples: Deuteronomy 6:5-6 – 5 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. 6 Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart. AND John 14:21 – 21 They who have my commandments and keep them are those who love me; and those who love me will be loved by my Father, and I will love them and reveal myself to them. Remember? Trust and Obey. (↔ Music Link)
Obedience is an authentic expression of Love, and since Love came before Obedience (and even before disobedience), we truly must make Loving God our priority because when we do that we are blessed with the capacity to Love our neighbors. And it gets even more astonishing when we go through the laborious process of Loving our most irritating neighbors and giving birth to the formation of a new community of love and caring. We can all see and understand that the Absolutely Perfect Plan is exactly that – Absolutely Perfect! All who are faithful in these two things will indeed do the will of their Father, and that is the “more” that will be given to those who have more … but more what?
More faithfulness is the seed for more faithfulness. Those who have little to no faith have nothing valuable to reap because they have not sown much of value. Our spiritual “muscles” are developed and strengthened by vigorous and judicious exercise – working hard on one’s wise choices. Those who are spiritually decadent and impoverished by their refusal of God’s abundant Grace available for the attainment of individual holiness will be all the poorer because they will lose even the Grace to accept Grace. What a sorry state of life that must be! And yet, dearly Belovéd, everywhere we go today we see billions upon billions of persons who flatly reject the Love of God.
We present The Apostle Paul’s list of these squanderers of Grace often (See 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 in 2343AFC102723). Each of us knows persons whose lives are characterized by 1, 2, 3, or more of those characteristics. Those in that list who live in the World already have a reward of sorts – living as Dead before dying. Those in that list who live as brothers and sisters – adelphos – in the Church have an even more “prodigious” reward. Whatever Graces they have received will be stripped away when the Lord tells them, “Depart from me! I never knew you!” Their Great Reward will be Death Everlasting. If we have loved-ones in that category, we will be held accountable if we do not attempt to convert them through conviction in the Word. Selah.
We are given Grace upon Grace, Love upon Love, freedom upon freedom. Every living soul has that treasury consecrated to them as a free, though unmerited, Gift. Honor the Giver by accepting the Gift, then putting it to use as best befits its nature. God is Good, and all, ALL his Gifts are Good! We are called to carefully and lovingly use them, because if we don’t, we lose them. Use’em or lose’em. Our El Shaddai-Olam will certainly honor our choices and repay us in kind. If you love someone who is on the brink of losing everlasting life, hold them tight and tell them “DON’T DIE! REPENT AND BELIEVE THE GOSPEL!” Remember the Big Blue Button? Here’s another way to look at it, and why you don’t want your loved one to die. Tell them this:
“If that elevator will be going up, the instant you die, you will see an Angel coming up to you to take you by the hand and lead you to the Chariot that will be carrying you home. (↔ Music Link) If the elevator will be going down, in the instant your soul leaves your body, you will see the blackened hand of a demon reaching up from below the Earth to grab you by the heel and drag your soul straight into Hell.” Yes, ʻŌmea, the idea is to simply scare the Hell out of them. That’s a wonderful way to Love and Obey the Lord God and Jesus, the Christ of God and our Faithful Companion, Advocate, and Friend, the Holy Spirit. Use them, and you can’t lose them – nor Heaven either. AMEN.
Whatever, whenever, wherever, whoever, however, if ever, forever —
at your service, Belovéd!
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No, certainly not. It doesn’t work that way. We refer back to that Big Blue Button with the Big white H. If you take a few moments to look back to
The illumination we need comes to us via the Holy Spirit, the LORD, the Giver of Life and Light. Even if we have days when we have to endure a hard and painful struggle, (See
were martyred for their faith; over 2,000 churches were attacked; and 140,000 Christians were displaced. (see the link above for more details). That’s from last year. In 2023 we know it’s going to be much, much larger. These data include only Christian persecutions. They do not include Muslim or Jewish murders and persecutions, or deaths from warfare. That is indeed a heaping heap of “difficulties.” Reports of corporate, governmental, and even inter-religious prejudices, mistreatments, and shady activities are “in the news” almost daily. I put that in quotes because there are maybe only a handful of news agencies that cover “nothing but the facts, ma’am.” How can so many groups be so hateful about so many other people? “I’m offended,” and “You’re a threat” are the go-to accusations in this era of decline in faith, worship, and morality. The resulting decline in real justice and corresponding need for constant, efficacious prayer leaves one breathless. How can the Body of Christ aspire to holiness under all this persecution (even if we in the US of A are not in the top-50)? Our Gospel Key Verse points the Way.
Once again, we can turn to the first letter of The Apostle Peter.
on the program is The Tribulation (with or without the Parousia), then – as a person of Faith – I should be jumping for joy because everything is going as planned, and the Day of Resurrection is in sight. The World would judge me as just plain crazy, another religious nut. You’ve probably seen this little meme before, so you’ll understand why it is very important that we do not pay attention to the World’s judgments!
ALL the kings of Israel were anointed, and Cyrus was a Gentile whom God himself anointed with his Spirit. (See
the emperor, or not?” (See
radical change in one’s life (we’ve discussed
The Wedding Garment was a tradition wherein the patron of the wedding provided a garment for all the guests. It was a visible test of loyalty and love for the patron. The man in our Gospel reading refused to wear the garment provided. His defiance was clear to all around him. He arrogantly considered himself sufficiently “royal not loyal,” and dared to walk into the banquet hall without the proper vestments. If we look around the world today, we see many such guests who are invited to the Wedding Feast, but will no put on the Wedding Garment – the Love of Christ. The wedding garment was an outward sign of an inner reality. Those guests who chose to wear it were inwardly committed to the King. Their heartfelt attendance and proper decorum was an endorsement of the King’s authority and goodwill. It was the internal disposition of respect that engendered the external expression of that respect. Likewise, it is the internal disposition to love and obey God that engenders the outward expression of that love and obedience. It is the decision to give God primacy in all things that empowers and inspires us to come to the Table of Plenty and to be welcomed there. I refer you again to the article in
in the Old Testament. We see one of them in our Key Verse from Psalms. You anoint my head with oil, my cup overflows. In the Psalmist’s day, guests were anointed with fragrant oil to refresh them after their journey. It was a sign of hospitality, one of the foundational principles in the heritage of Israel. The overflowing cup reinforces this hospitality as being expressed in great generosity. This sort of extravagant generosity was an expression of humility, not pride, because it was committed to honor the guest, not the host. Now we begin to see the true power of these words from Psalms. God has prepared a feast for us in the presence of our enemies and has blessed us with an extravagant banquet of his Hospitality.
and my soul shall be healed.)The King invited all the uppity-ups and they all turned him down because they thought they were too worthy in their own selves to be at the wedding. Therefore, the King invited all the riff-raff, the ragamuffins, and the marginalized. As they entered, they were treated to the King’s extravagant hospitality. So it is with us Belovéd. We are invited to the King’s extravagant banquet a
going with us. We know Who we Love, and we know Who we will marry as the Church Triumphant. As of now we are the church Militant, and for some (perhaps most?) of us we will become the Church Suffering. But, as the Time and Times progress, we will be clothed in the white robes of the Wedding Garment and enter in to a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wines, of rich food filled with marrow, of well-aged wines strained clear. It’s all part of God’s Absolutely Perfect Plan. SO ARE WE, BELOVÉD! Take a look at this image and chose which feast we can plan on attending together. Again I ask you to pray for Ukraine and Israel as well as the enemies that assail them and the many, many earthlings who will die because of this. Jesus told us to pray for our enemies. We are not in either of those countries, we are not at war with either of their persecutors; however, we are at war with the entities behind these vicious, evil, wars – Satan and his minions both human and demonic. They will not be invited. Will we be chosen to enter into the feast? Jesus said, “Many are called but few are chosen. How shall we be among the chosen? By accepting God’s extravagant hospitality and choosing to wear the Wedding Garment God himself has provided: The Love of Christ internally and externally.
at hand, we begin with a riddle: Q: What do you call a boomerang that doesn’t come back? (Come on, you know this one.) A STICK! Now, what do you call a branch cut off from the tree? You want to say “a stick,” but that’s not correct. A branch cut off of the tree is kindling.
him his share of the crops. He twice sent emissaries to ask for their cooperation, but they abused his messengers and even killed one. At last he sent his son, believing that they would surely not harm him. Instead they plotted against him and killed his son as well. We can see plainly enough with our 2023 hindsight that this is about Israel and Jesus, the Son of the Landowner. At the end of the parable, the people who heard it passed judgments on those evil tenants: They said to him, “He will put those wretches to a miserable death, and lease the vineyard to other tenants who will give him the produce at the harvest time.” We can easily understand “God is due what (and who) belongs to him.” And we also understand that if we refuse to Repent and Believe the Gospel, we will be among the kindling.
16 You will know them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles? Another translation puts it like this:
heaven. I looked across at the line of people going down into Hell. I saw the face of a friend. She looked over at me and said, “Why didn’t you tell me?” You know what, Beloved? There is a very good chance we are part of God’s intent to “fully supply all” that person’s (and even many others’) needs! What’s stopping us? Whatever it is, there is an eternal life-or-death decision we must make before it is too late. Let none of us be another stick in the … pile through condonation. Repent and Believe AND LIVE the Gospel! And what shall we do to live the Gospel?
Spirit be with all of you. You remember these guys, right? Nemo and his dad, Marlin and mom, Coral? Coral and her eggs are destroyed near the beginning of the movie, but one egg apparently survives and grows up to become Nemo. We should begin by telling why this post title is so strange. What’s Nemo got to do with anything? Let’s start with his name.
Now, that Great Ocean of Grace is what we might recall is “Prevenient Grace.” It is the Grace of Hope. Godly Hope is the combination of desire (it’s what we want) and expectation – (we believe we will receive it). Prevenient Grace is Grace that’s given to all earthlings without any effort or contribution on their part; it’s like “standard equipment.” It means Salvation cannot be credited to believers’ enterprise because all they did was to accept what God had already provided – a Great Ocean of Grace. A fish gotta swim, and a sea’s the place for it. We can’t pay for the Great Ocean of Grace any more than we can pay for our own Salvation. Both of these are God’s Gifts, the Prevenient Gift of that Ocean of Grace is essentially irresistible if we are still alive. Salvation, on the other hand, is resistible which means that anyone can choose whatever is less than that. We must
Christ —by grace you have been saved— 6 and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, 7 so that in the ages to come he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. 8 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God— 9 not the result of works, so that no one may boast. There’s no point in chasing pursuing our own ends to stay afloat in God’s Infinite Mercy. Otherwise, if we choose unwisely, we might have a misadventure like Nemo and Dory or even like
Time. There are only eight more weeks in Ordinary Time until we celebrate The Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe on November 26th. At the outset today, I want to mention a previous post. In 

translated as “Jesus the son of Sirach of Jerusalem.” Ben Sira wrote in Hebrew, but his grandson later translated the book into Greek. The content of this lovely book is, in many ways, like the familiar Book of Proverbs, and is included in the list of writings called “Wisdom Literature.” Sirach is warning us to be true to the commandments – always a wise thing to do. He cautions us “do not be angry with your neighbor; remember the covenant of the Most High, and overlook faults.” Overlook faults? Honestly, compared to thinking about death, that just might be something we think even less about! Again, intellectually or poetically, we know that’s part of the Two Great Commandments – Love God and Love you neighbor. Why would God tie those two things together? Is that just something he threw in to make life more difficult?
sin. A pardon is a sovereign act by a superior authority which grants the lessening or omission of punishment. The Justice of God is his authority to expunge our guilt and retore us to his company. It requires reparation for the remission of our sin, and thus he provides us with justification that is in his capacity as The Just Judge. He grants all of the rewards and blessings of our Salvation. Sin is actually removed from our soul. Now that’s something to think about! Pardon and Justification are Graces for those who belong to the Lord, who present themselves in humility and contrition, and who accept and abide in God’s limitless Grace. As The Apostle Paul has said in our Key Verse from his epistles,
the church sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times. There is a similar admonition in
